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Author: Cherie Silas

Cherie Silas
Cherie is an ICF Master Certified Coach (MCC) and a Scrum Alliance Certified Enterprise Coach (CEC), who has been coaching, leading, training, and mentoring people for most of her career.

Unlocking Agile Leadership: 5 Key Coaching Strategies for Executive Success

Discover five key coaching strategies for enhancing executive success in an agile context. Learn how active listening, reflection, client language, emotional exploration, and empathy can transform leadership effectiveness, fostering a culture of adaptability and continuous learning.

Empowering Leadership: 5 Essential Coaching Strategies for Executive Teams

Discover five essential coaching strategies that empower leadership teams to navigate challenges with emotional intelligence, reflection, storytelling, constructive feedback, and agility, fostering a culture of collaboration and innovation.

Mastering Listening Actively: An In-depth Look at Updated ICF Core Competency 6 for Coaches

Discover five active listening techniques essential for ICF ACC certified coaches, enhancing coaching effectiveness and leadership development in agile contexts.

5 Keys to Well-Formed Outcomes in Executive Coaching

Discover five essential keys to crafting well-formed outcomes in executive coaching, transforming broad aspirations into tangible achievements for leaders.

Elevating Leadership: 4 Cornerstones of Effective Team Coaching

Discover the four cornerstones of effective team coaching for leadership and executive teams: cultivating co-creative relationships, emphasizing emotional intelligence, encouraging reflective silence, and nurturing a learning mindset. These principles guide leaders towards visionary and empathetic leadership in modern organizations.

Unlocking the True Potential: Coaching the Person, Not Just the Problem

Explore how coaching the person rather than the problem can transform leadership and executive coaching, inspired by Marcia Reynolds's innovative approach.

Unlocking Agile Leadership: 5 Key Strategies for Coaching High-Performance Teams

Discover five key strategies for agile coaches to transform leadership teams: embracing presence, cultivating emotional intelligence, championing work-life harmony, leveraging silence for reflection, and building a foundation of continuous learning. These approaches foster resilience, innovation, and a culture of trust in agile environments.

Beyond Solutions: Empowering Agile Leaders Through Person-Centered Coaching

Explore how person-centered coaching empowers agile leaders, focusing on trust, active listening, reflective inquiry, and embracing the leader's whole self for transformative growth.

Elevating Executive Coaching: NLP Presuppositions for Advanced Leadership

Dive deeper into NLP presuppositions with a focus on executive coaching, highlighting principles that enhance leadership qualities and decision-making processes.

Mastering Team Dynamics: The 8 ICF Competencies Every Executive Coach Needs

Explore the eight ICF competencies for team coaching that every executive coach needs to master, ensuring ethical, impactful, and transformational coaching practices.

Unlocking Leadership Potential: 5 Key Strategies for Actions and Accountability in Coaching

Discover five transformative strategies for actions and accountability in coaching leaders. Learn how to foster autonomy, tailor accountability, celebrate successes, navigate barriers, and encourage continuous learning for impactful leadership development.

Empowering Agile Leaders: 4 Strategies for Action and Accountability

Discover four key strategies for empowering agile leaders through action and accountability, enhancing their effectiveness and fostering a culture of continuous improvement.

Unlocking Leadership Potential: 5 NLP Presuppositions Every Coach Should Know

Explore 5 NLP presuppositions that transform coaching practices for leaders and executives, offering insights into human behavior and thought processes for profound professional growth.

5 Strategic Steps to Establish an Effective Engagement Plan for Agile Leadership Teams

Discover five strategic steps for agile coaches to establish an effective engagement plan for leadership teams, ensuring alignment, clarity, and sustainable growth.

Mastering the Art of Multi-Level Listening: A Coach’s Guide

Explore four essential tips for mastering multi-level listening in coaching. Learn how to embrace silence, listen beyond words, perceive the unspoken, and use yourself as an instrument for deeper client understanding and support.

4 Strategic Steps to Establishing an Effective Engagement Plan for Leadership Teams

Learn four strategic steps for creating an effective engagement plan for leadership teams, focusing on comprehensive assessments, inclusive engagement, clear goal-setting, and continuous improvement.

4 Essential Listening Skills for Agile Leadership Coaching

Discover how to master the art of listening in agile leadership coaching with these four essential skills, transforming your coaching approach and enhancing organizational agility.

Unlock Your Potential with Coach Supervision: Insights from Accredited Supervisor Cherie Silas, MCC, ESIA

Unlock the transformative power of coach supervision with insights from Cherie Silas, MCC. Discover how reflective practices and mentorship by accredited supervisors like Silas enhance coaching effectiveness and professional growth. Learn the difference between coaching supervision and mentor coaching and explore the path to becoming an accredited coach supervisor. Elevate your coaching with proven strategies for success.

5 Key NLP Techniques for Executive Coaches

Discover five NLP techniques that can revolutionize executive coaching, from building rapport to reframing challenges, and how they can enhance leadership development.

5 Powerful Strategies to Elevate Leadership and Executive Teams

Discover 5 transformative strategies for elevating leadership and executive teams, from cultivating trust to embracing systemic thinking and accountability, all through the lens of Cherie Silas's coaching expertise.

5 Key Strategies for Building Trust and Effective Communication in Agile Teams

Discover five transformative strategies for building trust and enhancing communication in agile teams, from understanding individual contexts to fostering openness and establishing clear goals.

5 Steps to Establishing Effective Coaching Agreements with Agile Leaders

Explore five key steps to establishing effective coaching agreements with agile leaders, ensuring clarity, trust, and impactful outcomes.

5 Essential NLP Techniques for Effective Leadership Coaching

Discover five transformative NLP techniques for leadership coaching, from building rapport to enhancing sensory acuity, that can revolutionize how leaders communicate, set goals, and foster team growth.

Transformative Systems Coaching: Unveiling 5 Strategies with Real Impact

Dive into the world of systems coaching with strategies that are both research-backed and proven in real-world settings, showcasing the transformative power of holistic organizational change.

Maximizing Leadership Potential: 4 Key Strategies for Personal Growth

Discover four transformative strategies for personal growth in leadership: Active Listening, Evoking Awareness, Recognizing Emotional Shifts, and Fostering a Forward-Thinking Mindset.

4 Key Pillars of the ICF Core Competency Model Every Coach Should Know

Discover the 4 foundational pillars of the ICF Core Competency Model that are essential for effective coaching, from ethical practice to cultivating client growth.

5 Transformative Coaching Techniques for Agile Leaders

Explore five practical coaching strategies for agile leaders, focusing on active listening, insightful questioning, and emotional intelligence to enhance team dynamics and organizational growth.

Evolving Your Coaching Skills: Mastering ICF Competencies for Career Growth

Unlock the pathway from novice to expert in the coaching field by nurturing and mastering ICF competencies, essential for personal and professional growth.

Coaching Confidence Boost: Develop Essential Skills and Thrive in Your Coaching Practice

Cultivate your coaching confidence with actionable strategies. Embrace continuous learning, constructive feedback, and a supportive community to thrive in your practice.

Maximizing Your Coaching Effectiveness: Practical Ways to Apply ICF Competencies

Explore how integrating ICF competencies into your coaching practice can unlock your full potential, enhancing your effectiveness and impact as a coach.

Demystifying the ICF Certification Process: A Competency-Based Approach

Unravel the intricacies of the ICF competency-based certification process, essential for coaches aspiring to excellence and credibility in the coaching profession.

Boost Your Coaching Skills: Strategies to Elevate ICF Competencies

Unlock the potential of ICF coaching competencies with effective strategies designed to enhance your coaching practice and leadership skills.

Unlocking Coaching Excellence: A Guide to Mastering ICF Core Competencies

Discover how mastering the ICF Core Competencies is essential for coaching excellence, enhancing leadership, and promoting agile transformations in this insightful guide.

Master the Art of Building Trust in Coaching Relationships – Expert Insights from Tandem Coaching Partners

Elevate your coaching by mastering trust-building with insights from Tandem Coaching Partners. Learn to create safe spaces, authentically engage, and maintain confidentiality for lasting client relationships.

Unlocking Your Coaching Potential: The Path to ACC Certification

Explore the journey to becoming an ACC certified coach with the ICF, including key steps and how the Tandem ICF ACC Accelerate Coaching training program can support your path to certification.

10 Books Every Coach Should Read for Personal and Professional Growth

Explore 10 must-reads for coaches seeking growth. This list offers insights into powerful coaching techniques, leadership, and personal development to transform your practice.

Master Your Coaching Toolkit: 5 Must-Have Techniques for Driving Client Success

Explore five key coaching techniques including mindfulness, Socratic questioning, and strengths-based coaching to enhance client success and personal growth.

Building a Successful Coaching Practice: Expert Insights for Attracting and Retaining Clients

Learn key insights for building a successful coaching practice, including defining your niche, enhancing online presence, and providing exceptional coaching experiences.

The Power of Active Listening in Coaching: A Guide to Transforming Client Relationships

This guide highlights the importance of active listening in coaching, emphasizing its role in understanding client emotions and narratives, and building trust.

Unlock Your Coaching Potential: 5 Essential Skills Every Aspiring Coach Must Master

The article outlines five essential skills for aspiring coaches, including active listening, asking powerful questions, building trust, exhibiting emotional intelligence, and remaining non-judgmental, as advised by experienced ICF Master Certified Coaches.

PCC Coaching Mindset: Exploring ICF Team Coaching Competencies for Team Coaches

This article discusses the evolution of ICF Team Coaching Competencies and the introduction of the Advanced Team Coaching Certificate (ACTC). It highlights how these competencies and the ACTC program can enhance the skills and practices of team coaches.

Product Backlog Ordering using Product Goals, Strategy, ROI

Product backlog ordering is an art by itself, especially in complex environments. We introduce a few techniques that help product owners manage product backlog.

ICF Core Competencies: Develop Your Coaching Presence

Mastering ICF's Competency 5, Maintaining Presence, coaches craft a space for client self-discovery. Through deep listening and strategic silence, they foster an environment where clients feel heard, supported, and empowered to explore their own paths. This commitment to presence enhances every session, guiding clients toward profound insights and transformative growth.

ICF Core Competencies: Empathy, Neutrality, and Vulnerability

The last few articles introduced concepts and International Coach Federation core competencies in co-creating the coach client relationship and building a strong coaching agreement with the client. In this article, we inspect another ICF core competency – Establishes and Maintains Agreements. We will also discuss the ways to make sure you and the client are appropriately matched before committing to a coaching relationship.

ICF Core Competencies: Understand, Respect, and Acknowledge

The last few articles introduced concepts and International Coach Federation core competencies in co-creating the coach client relationship and building a strong coaching agreement with the client. In this article, we inspect another ICF core competency – Establishes and Maintains Agreements. We will also discuss the ways to make sure you and the client are appropriately matched before committing to a coaching relationship.

ICF Core Competencies: Keys for a Strong Session Agreement

The last few articles introduced concepts and International Coach Federation core competencies in co-creating the coach client relationship and building a strong coaching agreement with the client. In this article, we inspect another ICF core competency – Establishes and Maintains Agreements. We will also discuss the ways to make sure you and the client are appropriately matched before committing to a coaching relationship.

ICF Core Competencies: The Coaching Plan

The last article introduced the use of the STORMMES Model © in co-creating the relationship agreement with the client. In this article, we take a closer look at competency 3 Establishes and Maintains Agreements.The first three competency markers in this section help us to understand what a good relationship agreement contains.

ICF Core Competencies: Preparation and Assistance

The stronger you grow in your experience of coaching the better coach you will be to serve your clients. This growth mindset will show up in your coaching because you will become more flexible, creative, and relational.

ICF Core Competencies: Self-Awareness and Intuition

In this article of the series we are looking at the importance of recognizing and demonstrating cultural awareness in coaching practice.

Scaling Coaching Through Systems Thinking

Scaling is often frowned upon in the Agile world. Scaling coaching from individuals to teams and to organizations is the only way to bring the systemic change to bigger and wider systems and we believe that scaling coaching through systems thinking is the way to go.

ICF Core Competencies: Managing Client Focus, Session Time, and Relationship Completion

Every coaching conversation begins with the client’s agenda and focus. The client holds the content, and the coach holds the process. Together they partner to make progress towards the client’s goals. The goal of coaching is to create client awareness. It is more important that the client learn and make progress toward the goals outlined at the beginning of the conversation than it is to get to the end, ring the bell and say, “We did it!”

ICF Core Competencies: Partnering With Client For Success

The last few articles introduced concepts and International Coach Federation core competencies in co-creating the coach client relationship and building a strong coaching agreement with the client. In this article, we inspect another ICF core competency – Establishes and Maintains Agreements. We will also discuss the ways to make sure you and the client are appropriately matched before committing to a coaching relationship.

ICF Core Competencies: The Relationship Agreement

The last article introduced the use of the STORMMES Model © in co-creating the relationship agreement with the client. In this article, we take a closer look at competency 3 Establishes and Maintains Agreements.The first three competency markers in this section help us to understand what a good relationship agreement contains.

ICF Core Competencies: Co-Creating the Relationship

With the release of the new Core Competency Model, ICF has taken an expanded approach to competency in co-creating the coaching relationship with the client. In the new model, section B focuses on three competencies needed to properly co-create the relationship with the client:3. Establishes and Maintains Agreements 4. Cultivates Trust and Safety 5. Maintains Presence Here we are covering these competencies.

ICF Core Competencies: Cultural Awareness

In this article of the series we are looking at the importance of recognizing and demonstrating cultural awareness in coaching practice.

ICF Core Competencies: Coaching Mindset Self-Development

The stronger you grow in your experience of coaching the better coach you will be to serve your clients. This growth mindset will show up in your coaching because you will become more flexible, creative, and relational.

ICF Core Competencies: Acknowledging Client Responsibility

ICF recently released and updated competency model that will go into effect for credential applications in early 2021.What does this change mean for coaches? It means that it’s time to step up our game and start focusing on what these indicators mean to who we are as coaches. The competency markers aren’t meant to be a checklist to make sure you go through every coaching session. They are intended to help you have a way to look at how your coaching mindset is being outwardly manifested. If these things aren’t showing, don’t create a list of questions to check off the markers. Instead, take a look inside and see what needs to change about who you are as a coach in order to reflect these things in your everyday life. Being a coach goes way beyond what you do inside a coaching session. It’s who you are and what you have become. It’s how you look at people and how you interact with the world that surrounds you.

ICF Core Competencies: Ethical Coaching Practices

ICF recently released and updated competency model that will go into effect for credential applications in early 2021.What does this change mean for coaches? It means that it’s time to step up our game and start focusing on what these indicators mean to who we are as coaches. The competency markers aren’t meant to be a checklist to make sure you go through every coaching session. They are intended to help you have a way to look at how your coaching mindset is being outwardly manifested. If these things aren’t showing, don’t create a list of questions to check off the markers. Instead, take a look inside and see what needs to change about who you are as a coach in order to reflect these things in your everyday life. Being a coach goes way beyond what you do inside a coaching session. It’s who you are and what you have become. It’s how you look at people and how you interact with the world that surrounds you.

Add Coaching Skills to Your Agile Toolkit

Enterprise Agile Coach Cherie Silas wants to help SMs sharpen and, if necessary, develop coaching skills to complement the tools already in their Agile toolkit.

Coaching Agreement – STORMMES Model

A great way to get a start with a new client or new coaching objective is to create a coaching agreement. STORMMES is a sample model you can use to gain greater clarity on the client’s goal and how you will work together for success.

Manager as Coach

In order to understand the role of manager as coach, it is first vital to understand the difference between coaching and … well, everything else. I often find that people confuse coaching with other things such as dictating, micro-managing, performance managing, mentoring, teaching, and other things that I can’t quite name.

Information Radiator – Sprint Health

Information Radiators are a great way to make things transparent for a team or organization. The radiator pictured above I a sprint health radiator. It can be used however you choose to implement and using whatever colors you select. I just happened to be using a white board and green, blue, and red dry erase markers when I created the one pictured above.You could also make this smaller on a flip chart and create a new one daily to show progress over time which is really cool because the team can see how far they’ve come each day. It also shows them when new work is added to the sprint or when things are not moving along as expected. Take care to ensure that this information radiator is used to display and radiate information that is useful to the team to see the health of the sprint and make decisions about changes they might need to make in the way they are working. Don’t use this as a whipping stick to prod the team to work harder, faster, or more recklessly!Let me give a description of the radiator parts, options, and how it’s used.

Information Radiator – Gut Check

Information radiators are a great way for you to communicate information to a team that they just are not seeing for themselves. It also helps you to not have to nag the team with information they aren’t ready to hear about things they are doing that self-sabotaging.I created this radiator when I was working with a team that had gone through several sprints where they kept voicing that they were going to finish all the work until the last day when they finally admitted that they were not going to finish. I’m not sure if they were deceiving themselves or if they were afraid to admit failure but either way there were several reasons why I could see early in the sprint that they were not going to complete the work, but they couldn’t accept fate until the last day of the sprint. By then, there wasn’t much that could be done to change directions or not frustrate stakeholders with surprise unfinished work.

The Power of Interlocking Roles

So, now you know two things about me. I write in my books and I can’t draw. I snapped a shot of this image from the Coaching Agile Teams book – Chapter 7, (Lyssa Adkins) because it is an amazing way to portray how the role of the scrum master, product owner, and agile manager work together. Too often I see coaches running off managers and basically telling them that they no longer have a job. Managers are seen as the enemy of Agile. It doesn’t have to be that way. It shouldn’t be that way. We should be teaching managers what their new, even more powerful, role is!This picture really stirred me up because it put into writing questions I have often had explaining to the scrum master and agile manager. There are also pieces of this that validate things I’ve always instinctively known but didn’t have anything but my gut to tell me it was true.

Agile Jeopardy Retrospective

(This post is by guest blogger, Kenny Barnes.)For our latest retrospective, I created a jeopardy board using JeopardyLabs – Online Jeopardy Template.   I used a mix of Agile related categories (Scrum, Agile), items related to the team [Working Agreements, Sprint (more details below)] and something the team is really passionate about (Star Wars).  It took about an hour and a half to come up with the questions/answers and setup the board.

Using Information Radiators to Make Risk Transparent

I love to walk around team spaces and identify cool things that people are doing so I can share them with the organization.  Last week while doing a Gemba Walk in one of my offices I found this!On his metal scrum board he created “What’s at Risk” information radiator magnets in the design of a traffic light.  Red indicates that the story is at risk with a high likelihood that it will not be completed this sprint.  Yellow indicates that the story is somewhat at risk and there is a chance that it will not be completed this sprint.  Green indicates that story is not at risk and is expected to be completed this sprint.  He uses two magnet discs to cover up the extra colors and only displays the current risk state of the story.

What Does Sustainable Pace Really Mean?

Agile values and principles are the core foundation by which Agile organizations operate and make decisions. Everything we do is based in these.  With that being said, viewing every principle through a holistic perspective is absolutely necessary.  Every word in the principles we live by has value and impact.  So, when we reduce a principle to a three word summary, I believe we do ourselves a disservice.  This practice often results in focusing on part of the principle without the balance of the other side.  Through this oversight, we inadvertently create environments where there is unbalance that leaves people frustrated and confused.  They begin to believe that Agile is the problem.  But, the real problem is our failure completely embrace the Agile values and principles and settle for anti-patterns instead.Today, I’d like to take a deeper look into Agile Principle #8 which states:  Agile processes promote sustainable development.  The sponsors, developers, and users should be able to maintain a constant pace indefinitely. 

Is More Really Better?

One of my favorite things about being and Agile coach is connecting with the Agile community through conferences, meet-ups, and other networks.  Because of these connections I get to interact with  Agilists all over the world.  Over the past few months I’ve noticed a concerning trend coming from the Scrum Master community.  They are telling me with excitement, “I’ve finally worked myself up to two teams!”  Some have said they are now working with three or four teams.  The thing that concerns me is that they seem to view spreading themselves across multiple teams as an accomplishment.  I am hearing pride in “being busy” and “being able to handle more” and that tells me that we still have work to do.  It tells me that there may still be an anti-pattern running rampant in our Agile organizations telling us lies.

A Fixer

While attending the Agile Coaching Institute’s Coaching Agile Teams class a while back the instructors read this poem to the class.  It served as a powerful reminder that as an agile coach, or a scrum master/team coach, we must see people and teams as naturally creative, resourceful, and whole if we want to empower them to grow and move forward.  As a coach I must be a servant to those I coach.  I’m not here to be better than them or to have all the answers.  I’m here to serve them in their quest for greatness.

Getting Unstuck ~ Lessons in Delegation

I spent some time coaching one of my clients* recently who was planning an event and needed to enlist the help of others in order to be successful.  The problem she was facing involved feeling overwhelmed.

My Agile Journey to CEC

“If you want to be a CST, do something about it. Get out there. Join the Agile community. Go to user groups. Go to conferences. Speak at conferences. I want to see you and know who you are. And you can never stop coaching.  You can’t be a good CST if you aren’t coaching. That’s where everything you know comes from. That’s where you gain your credibility and true expertise that can help people.”

Signal to Noise Ratio / Bottom Lining

A Few weeks ago while attending a Coaching Agile Teams class I heard one of the instructors (Lyssa Adkins) make a reference in passing to “signal to noise” ratio in reference to our ability to communicate with others.  Her comment intrigued me because I’d never heard that phrase before, so I started to do some investigation.Signal-to-noise ratio (abbreviated SNR or S/N) is a measure used in science and engineering that compares the level of a desired signal to the level of background noise.Signal-to-noise ratio is sometimes used informally to refer to the ratio of useful  information to false or irrelevant information in a conversation or exchange. For example, in online communities, off-topic posts and spam are regarded as “noise” that interferes with the “signal” of appropriate discussion.

Rubber Duck Productivity

Today, one of our team members taught me about rubber duck productivity.This was an experiment where people found that they were more productive when they kept a rubber duck on their desk. When they encountered a problem they were having trouble solving they would talk to the duck and tell the duck the problem.

Are Your Stories Ready?

This week I was particularly impressed with a method used by a Scrum Master to help his team understand which stories on the backlog were “ready” and which were not.  It’s amazing how such a simple technique can bring the transparency needed to help a team prepare for a successful sprint.  His technique is to use colored stickers as markers on the ordered product backlog hanging on the wall next to the team’s scrum board to indicate the state of the story.  If the story is not ready it gets a red sticker. 

Coaching – It’s more than just asking questions

A common belief is that the difference between coaching and managing is simply asking questions rather than giving orders.  I used to believe this.  Instead of making decisions for my teams and telling them what to do I would ask them questions and get them to derive their own solutions.  I thought that meant I was coaching.  But the more I got into coaching the more I really wanted to make sure I was doing it right and being effective.  So, over the past two years I have invested in myself and in my craft.  I have learned everything I can about professional coaching and gotten mentoring by master coaches.

An elephant and a monkey went for a walk last sprint …

This week I was walking past a conference room where a Scrum Master was preparing for the team’s retrospective.  I had to stop and take a picture because I really loved what I saw.  Here are a few of the things that really impressed me.

Agile 2015 Learning and Highlights

Sunday, as I got on a flight and headed to Washington, DC for Agile Alliance’s Agile 2015 conference, I was looking forward to spending a week with other like-minded people who believe in living the agile values and principles and who are investing in themselves and in others to grow in their craft. I anticipate this conference all year because I love the full saturation of agile. I love the networking and new ideas. I love the opportunity to see what others in the industry are up to and to learn from them. And I love meeting new people who teach me great things!Allison Pollard and I were given the opportunity to present a coaching topic called “Change Your Questions ~ Change Your World” this year. It was exciting to see Allison again and partner with her on this great topic and it was an honor to invest in the agile community at large.

Scrum Mastering – It’s a hard job. But someone has to do it!

This is me.  I’m an agile coach and I love being a scrum master whenever my path allows me to step into that role for a few months in order to start up new teams and develop scrum masters.  I’ve been scrum mastering a few teams for the past couple of months and having the time of my life!  But now comes the real test – mentoring a few brand new scrum masters.

Coaching Skills for Scrum Masters – Deep Listening

The other day when working with a few scrum masters I recognized how important coaching skills are to this profession.  I know that coaching is important and I teach new scrum masters that they are the coach to the team.  But, when working with these new scrum masters it brought to light that coaching skills aren’t something that we just know – they are learned on purpose.When I ask people about their coaching skills they often point to allowing the team to be self organized and make their own decisions.  They view coaching as asking questions that help people figure out the answers.  I agree.  Those are aspects of coaching that are very powerful for teams.  But there is an underlying skill that cripples the ability to ask powerful questions if it isn’t first mastered.  In order to ask powerful questions a scrum master must first learn to listen.I am realizing that the most powerful coaching skill a scrum master can learn to master is listening.  It is foundational to everything else.

Definition of Done – More Than a Checklist

This is Mark.  He challenges me.  He confronts me.  He inspires me.  I think he is amazing.  Mark doesn’t do things because someone like me who claims to know a bit about agile says so.  He looks at the world from every perspective. I love this about him because he forces me to think deeper than I’ve ever had to in many areas.  He stretches me as a coach and forces me to keep growing.Definition of Done was an area where Mark really inspired me to dig deep.  This was his concern …“I hear and see people teaching Definition of Done like it is a checklist of all the things a team has to do in order for a user story to be done.  I think this undermines ownership of quality code by the team because the checklist becomes a crutch and an excuse to be mediocre.  It causes people to say things like, ‘Well it meets the definition of done,’ when they know that the code still isn’t as good as it could be.  It develops the attitude of, ‘Oh well, it wasn’t on the list so I don’t have to do it.'”

The Power of Daring to be You

This past weekend I attended CTI coach training.  For three days I was able to experience coaching from an entirely different perspective.  This experiential training in a group setting was very powerful. During this weekend I didn’t just meet a new group of people – I met myself!  It was amazing to experience the insight and deep intuition of people on a level that made me feel understood, seen, and heard.  There were times when I felt like they knew me better than I knew myself – or maybe they were willing to pull out of me what I have spent so many years burying.During one session, we did an activity where we took turns sitting in the focus seat and others called out what they were seeing in you.  It was amazing and encouraging to hear the impressions that people had of me after just 14 hours together.  Then, they shifted and identified what they caught glimpses of but really wished would emerge.  In the next step, the class began to suggest metaphorical archetypes that captured the part of you that isn’t being fully embraced – who you really are deep inside that needs to be tapped into.

The Art of Creating Space for Growth in the Retrospective

At an open space event the other day a group of people were pondering the topic “Getting people to be engaged during meetings.”  Inevitably the conversation turned to retrospectives.  People described how some teams complained about being forced to have retrospectives and how others went without complaint  but didn’t really participate.  Some of the frustrations were that introverts never want to participate and have fun conversations with their teammates.In short, some scrum masters were describing ways that they have been trying to pull their teams into a place of participating but weren’t being successful.  Teams were feeling forced to do something they didn’t want to do and scrum masters were frustrated because no one wanted to play this very important game with them.As I stepped back from the conversation I began to realize that what was missing was the understanding that there is an art to being able to facilitate an effective retrospective that starts long before the meeting.  The scrum masters role in the retrospectives isn’t simply to facilitate while people to talk about what went well, what didn’t go well, and what will we do to improve in the next sprint.  It is about creating new awareness.  It isn’t about pulling people into the conversation.  It’s about creating space for them to learn and grow and innovate in order to become higher performing.

Bridging the Gap Between Remote Locations

In my years as a consultant I have seen it time and time again.  Companies with multiple sites all working together.  It is hard to bridge the gap across the miles and inevitably it shows up – The Red Headed Step Child Syndrome.  Perhaps you’ve seen it before?  This phenomenon happens when the people in offices separated by miles can’t quite see one another as human.This is usually how I see it portrayed:I meet people in one site in Arkansas and they talk to me about how “Michigan” has a mindset that is way off base.  They explain how “Michigan” really doesn’t understand how to get the work done properly so they need a lot of help.  “Arkansas” holds a bit of bitterness because “we” are always getting treated like second class citizens.  “Michigan” forgets us, doesn’t give us information timely, has a superior attitude, and doesn’t really care about “Arkansas.”Then, I go to the Michigan office and meet people there who tell me how “Arkansas” doesn’t really get it.  They describe “Arkansas” having a bit of an attitude, an incorrect mindset and lacking understanding of how to get the work done properly.  They say that “Arkansas” needs lots of help to get better.

Sometimes you just need to laugh

This is the glass door I ran into on my first morning in a new office.  Five minutes after I arrived.  And I had to laugh at myself!  “Way to go brainiac.  Good thing no one was watching that one.”  Then I giggled.Messing up, making mistakes, looking stupid in front of others – these are things that often cause people to put up walls around themselves as a means of self preservation.  No one wants other people to look at them and roll their eyes.  No one wants to be “that person.”  Unfortunately, the need to self preserve hinders a team’s ability to be transparent, take risks, and share ideas openly.As a scrum master or coach we need to be aware of the human nature that says, “protect yourself,” and help develop a culture of safety so team members can learn to trust one another and bring out the best in one another.  Part of the scrum master’s role is to help the team have the best communications possible.  Safe discussions in a team happen when everyone’s ideas are valued and respected.  Great ideas come forth when no single idea has to be the winner.  Instead of allowing people to fight for their position like there is a trophy at stake, teach them how each person can contribute to the ideas of the others and build the best solution for the problem at hand so everyone can win.

We all need a little help sometimes

To many travelers this just looked like a moving walkway in an airport in Philly, PA.  To me, it looked like exactly what I needed!  Exhausted from being on the road and meeting a bunch of new people over the past few weeks, the thought of having this thing hold the weight of my bags and help me get across this big airport was very comforting.After my amazing, but slow ride I started thinking…these walkways are like Scrum Masters!Sometimes agile teams need a little bit of help.  They get stuck in the same cycle of thinking when trying to solve problems and can’t seem to move forward.  The scrum master is helps them by asking powerful questions that cause them to think in new ways.  They gently lift them up and help them move successfully from one place to another.

Focus Forward

While working in Burlington, Vermont these past two weeks and experiencing temperatures as low as -14 I have learned some things about inspecting and adapting.  The first day I was here, I inspected my toes and they were freezing so I adapted by buying wool socks.  Then, I learned the next day that wool socks work better if you wear them under cotton socks.  I learned to adapt to my environment by layering clothes in order to stay warm.By the end of the first week I wasn’t so cold anymore.  It is amazing how quickly I was able to adapt when I changed my focus from how miserable the cold was to how warm layers of clothing can be.  In short, I chose to set down my victim thinking about how freezing I was and pick up my victorious thinking about how comfortable I could be.  I didn’t like my situation so I changed it!  Complaining about it wasn’t making me warmer so I did something productive instead and got warm.

Psychological Safety – On Taking Chances

Okay, so the truth is that this picture is not me.  It’s not even Vermont – where I happen to be working and freezing right now!  It’s my cousin Theresa and it’s in Illinois.  She is standing on her Dad’s frozen pond and loving it!  When I saw her post this picture on Facebook all I could say was, “That is so cool!” But other people who viewed the picture were saying things to her like, “Get off there!” and “Are you nuts!” and “OMG you are scaring me!Experiencing great things in life sometimes means taking risks.  Without risk we will never be as innovative as we could be because we’ll always be playing it safe.  Some people are afraid of taking risks because with risk comes the possibility of failure.  But, mature agile leaders and teams will recognize that failure doesn’t have to be bad.  We learn things through failure that we would never know if we hadn’t tried and flopped.  We learn what we never want to do again and what changes we can make to create a better team or product in the future.

Performance Coaching – Helping People GROW

As an agile coach I get the opportunity to have mentoring and coaching sessions with scrum masters who are in a rut.  They usually have tons of potential but don’t know how to take the next step forward.In order to facilitate these conversations, I use the popular coaching model GROW.G – Gather DataR – Reality CheckO – Obstacles and OpportunitiesW – Way ForwardThroughout the conversation I shift from a position of mentor to a position of coach in order to help the scrum master gain perspectives, come to conclusions, and create a plan to move forward.

Why are we standing?

A few months ago as I stopped to check in on a team during their daily scrum and I saw something really interesting happen.  This team was co-located in a team room and were all sitting around a large conference table working collaboratively.  There were two large whiteboards on two walls of the team room and one wall held a large scrum board.When it was time for the daily scrum one member of the team said, “It’s time for the scrum,” and started making open handed stand up motions to everyone encouraging them to rise from their seats for the “stand up” meeting.The team all rose from their chairs and stood in position looking at one another and proceeded to answer “the three questions” diligently reporting the status of the work they were responsible for completing.

Pushing the Limits

This is Mark.  He challenges me.  He confronts me.  He inspires me.  I think he is amazing.  Mark doesn’t do things because someone like me who claims to know a bit about agile says so.  He looks at the world from every perspective. I love this about him because he forces me to think deeper than I’ve ever had to in many areas.  He stretches me as a coach and forces me to keep growing.Definition of Done was an area where Mark really inspired me to dig deep.  This was his concern …“I hear and see people teaching Definition of Done like it is a checklist of all the things a team has to do in order for a user story to be done.  I think this undermines ownership of quality code by the team because the checklist becomes a crutch and an excuse to be mediocre.  It causes people to say things like, ‘Well it meets the definition of done,’ when they know that the code still isn’t as good as it could be.  It develops the attitude of, ‘Oh well, it wasn’t on the list so I don’t have to do it.'”

Introverts, Extroverts, Ambiverts – How Life Affects Us Differently

Three very different people types: extroverts, introverts and the very little known ambivert. I find that people have great misconceptions about what people with these three personality types can and cannot do. In general, I hear comments that extroverts do outgoing jobs that involve people and they are very successful, introverts don’t play well with others and they hide in closets, and ambiverts…what’s that?

7 Tips for Delivering an Engaging Conference Presentation

As a consultant one of the things that I enjoy most is speaking at conferences to help people gain knowledge about various topics that they can take back to their workplaces and implement. Often, after a session, people will ask for tips about how they can become better speakers. So, I thought I’d use this blog to give some of the tips I often give them…

Why They Need Agile Coaches

Over the past several weeks I have encountered multiple people from completely different companies that are implementing scrum.  Some have been trying this for a few weeks.  Some have been doing it for a couple of years.  Others are somewhere in between.  Some received formal training.  Some read books.  Others supplemented with You Tube videos.Everyone I spoke to had a different reason for meeting with me, an agile coach.  Some were people I was interviewing for clients to hire onto their full time staff.  Some were clients and potential clients.  Others were people in the agile community that asked for mentoring.They all had something in common – doing it alone.  In each case, they got information about scrum and tried to implement change.  In each case they are struggling.  Half of the struggles they are facing are around simply understanding how to implement the scrum framework properly.  This stems from brain overload and trying to cram too much understanding into their minds from a two day class or a book and attempting to remember it with no context to their real world.  Then, trying to implement the things they learned in their own environment while not forgetting anything.  Yeah, right.

Failure Must be an Option

I have heard people say all my life, “Failure is not an option,” and today, I would like to challenge this belief and say that in order to succeed, failure must be an option.One of the things you learn when training to be a coach is the art of deep listening.  When practicing this art with a team, the coach is listening to people and hearing what they are saying.  You also listen to things like tone of voice because much information can be heard in what is not said.  Changes in tone, pace and volume when they speak and the inflection in their voice can give clues to what the speaker is thinking and feeling.The coach is listening for things like passion and energy when people speak, they are listening for things that reveal the teams core values, strengths and areas of weakness or greatness where probing questions can begin to push them to new levels or wider areas of thinking.

Coaching Teams – Tips from the Trenches

Earlier this week I met with a group of coaches of various experience levels from different backgrounds to talk about coaching teams.  We discussed together our successes and failures in attempts to learn from one another.  What follows is a list of the results of what we discovered together.

Servant Leadership in Action

Earlier this week I attended a retrospective with team I am coaching and watched as a growing scrum master stood up and started the retrospective saying, “Ok guys, I’m going to step completely out of my comfort zone again today.   You didn’t like the activity that we started the retrospective with last time so I’m not going to make you do that again.  Instead, I came up with something else that I hope you will like a little bit better…”

This Shouldn’t Be a Status Meeting … Improving the Daily Scrum

How can I keep the daily scrum from becoming a daily status meeting? But if we are all answering three questions then who is supposed to be asking the questions?  If we are gathering to give our updates on these three questions every day on what we are doing then that sounds like a status meeting to me – what am I doing wrong?These are all questions that I have heard new scrum masters ask.  The daily scrum seems like it should be the simplest thing we do, right?  The team self organizes daily for a time box of no more than 15 minutes and talks about three things:  What I did yesterday, what I am going to do today, and what is standing in my way.So, why is it so hard?  In my experience … mindset.  Often, scrum masters learn a process to implement but they don’t recognize the mindset that must change in order for the process to have any value.  Being self organizing and collaborative, like being agile, is a mindset.  It’s not just something you do – it’s something you are.  It’s something you become.  It’s about individuals and interactions over process and tools. What I’m finding is that when teams are struggling with the daily scrum it’s about them putting the process and tools over the individuals and interactions.

Appreciation in the Workplace – The Language of Value

The appreciation languages aren’t just about saying thank you to people for things they have done.  The language of appreciation is actually the language of value.  It is how we communicate our value to others, it is how we know others view us as valuable, and it is how we know that others desire the value that we have to contribute.

The Language of Appreciation in the Workplace

I’m a consultant.  Working with one of my current clients as an enterprise agile coach I’ve been thinking a lot about the impact that appreciation has on an organization’s success.  As an enterprise coach I am responsible for, on average, 40 teams.  (Read my last post on “Scaling the Agile Coach” to find out how I’ve been able to successfully scale this role to be able to coach this many teams.)

Team Values Statement

As an agile coach, one of the first things I do when launching new teams is help them to create a Team Values Statement.Traditional working agreements are a declarative agreement by a team regarding how they will work together to bring cohesion and enable collaboration.  They set the ground rules, so to speak, so that everyone knows what field they are playing on. 

Agile Manifesto – What it means to me

The Agile Manifesto talks about uncovering better ways of developing software by doing it and helping others do it.  It goes on to state that through this work and helping others, four consist values have developed.  To me, these values go far beyond software development and set a platform for making decisions and forming thought processes.