Reflective Essay: Moments of Aliveness

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Domain
Life Coaching
Type
Worksheet
Phase
Discovery Reflection
Details
15 min Between sessions As-needed
Topics
Identity Values Mindset

Coaching tools for personal clarity and intentional living.

When to Use This Tool
Client is disconnected from a sense of aliveness or purpose and struggles to locate it in their current experience
Client has not examined the conditions or qualities that make them feel most engaged and alive
Coach wants to help a client reconnect with intrinsic motivation by locating its experiential anchors
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This reflective essay asks you to examine the moments in your life when you've f...

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1 Mid-career professional disconnected from what energizes them
Context

A program director at a nonprofit has been in the same organization for nine years. She's effective and well-regarded, but describes herself as going through the motions. She can't identify what's missing because she's been in motion too long to remember what aliveness actually feels like. The work is present-state diagnosis before any goal-setting happens.

How to Introduce

Assign as pre-session writing, not an in-session exercise. 'I want you to write something this week - not about your car...

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