Window of Tolerance Worksheet

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Domain
Wellness
Type
Worksheet
Phase
Discovery Action
Details
30 min Mid session
Topics
Resilience Emotions Self-Care

Supporting sustainable performance and personal resilience.

When to Use This Tool
A client goes reactive under pressure and wants to understand their nervous system better
Someone identifying whether they tend to go up into hyperarousal or down into shutdown
Building a personal regulation toolkit matched to their specific direction of dysregulation
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When stress pushes you outside your window — do you tend to go up, into urgency ...

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This tool is designed for coaching contexts, not clinical use. If you or your client is in crisis, contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988) or Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741).

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1 Leader who reads all stress as a performance signal and cannot distinguish zones
Context

A COO interprets every activated state as useful energy and every low-energy state as a productivity problem. He has no framework for distinguishing between arousal that is functional and arousal that has exceeded his capacity. His team describes him as unpredictable — sometimes incisive, sometimes explosive, with no visible pattern from the outside.

How to Introduce

Lead with the three-zone model before asking him to map his own experience. 'The model describes three states: a functio...

2 Director in burnout recovery who has been operating in hypoarousal for months 🔒
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Pairs Well With

Wellness

Emotional Regulation Zones

I swing between feeling flat and feeling overwhelmed and I don't know how to regulate in between

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