Urge Surfing Worksheet

Pause and ride out digital urges before you click, so you can choose instead of react. ADHD coaching worksheet based on evidence-backed urge surfing.

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When to Use This Tool
A client acts on digital impulses before they've had a chance to notice and choose
A client wants to build the skill of observing an urge without automatically following it
A client is working on extending the gap between trigger and action in high-distraction moments
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An urge follows a wave - trigger, rise, peak, fall. The peak always feels like i...

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Tool Classification
Domain
ADHD
Type
Worksheet
Phase
Action Reflection
Details
15 min Between sessions As-needed
Topics
Habits Executive Function Emotions

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1 Mapping the Full Arc of a Distraction Urge
Context

A client with ADHD who is a content strategist at a media company has been using phone-blocking apps for six months without sustainable results. She describes her urges as 'coming out of nowhere and then I've already checked.' She has never slowed the sequence down to observe it. The urge surfing worksheet introduces the concept that an urge has a shape - trigger, rise, peak, fall - and that the shape can be observed. The act of recording the arc once is the first intervention; the data it produces is the second.

How to Introduce

Frame the worksheet as an observational instrument rather than a behavior-change tool: 'This isn't asking you to resist ...

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