Break big goals into clear first steps when ADHD makes starting hard. Coach-designed worksheets for practical, evidence-informed goal planning.
Goals without structure tend to stall out fast with ADHD. These four worksheets walk through breaking a goal into steps, pairing tasks with rewards, setting coaching targets, and reflecting on what actually worked.
A senior software engineer recently promoted to tech lead who has been skipping sprint planning meetings and quarterly goal-setting sessions. They excel at individual coding tasks but freeze when asked to break down team objectives or set multi-week deliverables. They think the problem is that management tasks are boring compared to coding.
Frame this as engineering for your brain, not traditional goal-setting. 'You debug code by breaking it into smaller pieces. This does the same thing for work tasks your brain keeps rejecting.' Most ADHD developers resist planning tools because they associate them with corporate busywork. Position this as technical problem-solving applied to task management.
The Task Breakdown section reveals whether they understand the difference between tasks and outcomes. ADHD brains often write outcomes in the action steps column - 'finish the API' instead of 'write user authentication endpoint.' If all time estimates are identical or missing, they are guessing rather than thinking through each step.
Start with the time estimates in Task Breakdown. Ask: 'Which of these estimates feels most accurate?' Then: 'What makes that one different?' This reveals their actual relationship with time and task complexity. Move to the habits that slow them down - technical leaders often discover they are context-switching between management and coding without transition time.
If they cannot break any task below 2-hour chunks, or if every reward is coding-related, the issue may be deeper than task management. They might be using technical work to avoid leadership responsibilities entirely. Severity: moderate. Response: explore whether the promotion aligns with their actual career interests.
A marketing director at a mid-size company who creates detailed quarterly plans with metrics and deadlines, then stops following them within two weeks. They restart the planning process monthly, creating new frameworks and goal structures. They believe they need better planning systems, but the pattern repeats regardless of the method used.
Position this as a diagnostic tool, not another planning system. 'Before we build a new goal framework, let's see what happens to your current goals when you try to execute them.' Expect resistance to the simplicity - clients who over-plan often dismiss basic tools as insufficient. The complexity of their previous attempts is part of the problem, not the solution.
The Coaching Goals section will show whether they write goals or write planning theater. Real goals connect to personal meaning; planning theater produces corporate-speak outcomes. Watch for goals that sound like they belong in someone else's performance review. The dopamine pairing often stays empty or gets filled with work-related rewards.
Start with the 'why it matters' column in Coaching Goals. Read their answers back to them and ask: 'Does this feel true when you hear it?' If the why feels flat, the goal will not survive contact with competing priorities. Then move to habits that slow them down - chronic re-planners often discover they are using planning as procrastination.
If all three goals sound like they were written for their boss, or if they cannot identify any habits that slow them down, the issue may be role clarity rather than goal execution. They might be trying to achieve goals that are not actually theirs. Severity: moderate. Response: explore whose approval they are seeking through these goals.
An operations manager supporting three VPs who each assign urgent projects without coordination. The client feels pulled in multiple directions and cannot make progress on any single initiative. They think they need better time management skills, but the real issue is conflicting organizational priorities they have no authority to resolve.
Frame this as a triage tool for competing demands. 'This will not solve the organizational problem, but it will show you where your effort is actually going versus where you think it should go.' Many operations roles involve managing up to multiple stakeholders who do not coordinate with each other. The tool makes the impossible visible.
The Task Breakdown section will reveal whether they are trying to break down tasks they do not actually control. If action steps include 'get approval from VP X' or 'wait for decision from leadership team,' they are planning around organizational dysfunction rather than their own work. The dopamine pairing often gets filled with stress-relief activities rather than genuine rewards.
Start with the habits that slow them down. Operations managers in matrix organizations often discover they are saying yes to everything because they cannot distinguish between their priorities and their stakeholders' priorities. Ask: 'Which of these habits is actually a response to organizational pressure?' This separates personal development from systemic issues.
If they cannot identify any tasks they fully control, or if all their goals require coordination between executives who do not communicate, the coaching conversation may need to focus on organizational navigation rather than personal productivity. Severity: high. Response: explore whether they have the authority to achieve what they are being asked to achieve.
An independent consultant whose income depends entirely on business development activities - networking, proposal writing, follow-up calls - but who consistently avoids these tasks until cash flow becomes critical. They can deliver excellent client work but treat business development as a necessary evil rather than core business activity.
Present this as revenue engineering, not personal development. 'Business development feels different from delivery work because the feedback loops are longer and less predictable. This tool creates shorter feedback loops you can control.' Solo practitioners often resist business development because it requires tolerance for rejection and uncertainty that delivery work does not.
The dopamine pairing section reveals their relationship with business development activities. If they cannot identify any rewards for networking or proposal writing, they are treating these as punishment rather than investment. The Task Breakdown often shows they are trying to do too much business development at once rather than building sustainable habits.
Start with the 'why it matters' section for their business development goals. Many consultants write abstract reasons - 'grow the business' - rather than personal ones - 'work with clients who energize me.' Ask: 'What would change for you personally if you achieved this goal?' Then connect that personal outcome to specific business development activities.
If they cannot connect business development to personal meaning, or if all their rewards are unrelated to business growth, they may have fundamental ambivalence about running a business versus being an employee. Severity: moderate. Response: explore whether independent consulting aligns with their actual preferences for work structure and risk tolerance.
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