Mentoring and Coaching in the Workplace – What Leaders Should Know

Most companies today focus on two main ways to help employees learn and grow: 

• The online courses employees take through the company’s learning platform
• The in-person sessions that take up half or full days

These methods heavily depend on formal classroom-style learning.

However, these traditional learning methods don’t work as well as you might think. Employees forget about 90% of what they learned within just one week. While repetition could help, it’s not practical to keep sending them to courses and seminars throughout the year.

That’s why companies are moving towards a more personal approach – building ongoing relationships through coaching and mentoring. These methods offer more lasting benefits than traditional learning approaches alone!

What is Mentoring and Coaching in the Workplace Context?

In the workplace context, mentoring and coaching provide structured support to enhance employees’ professional capabilities and maximize their potential:

• Mentoring: Involves a more experienced professional (mentor) sharing their knowledge and insights to guide the development of a less seasoned colleague (mentee). It focuses on the mentee’s long-term career aspirations through an ongoing partnership.
  • Example: A senior sales manager may mentor a high-potential sales rep on building client relationships, dealing with organizational politics, and preparing for leadership roles.

• Coaching: Coaching focuses on specific personal or performance-related goals through targeted short-term engagements. A coach uses structured sessions to drive the employee’s self-directed learning and growth.
  • Example: An executive coach could work with a director, VP, or senior manager to enhance presentation skills, increase influence with cross-functional partners, or transition into a general manager position.

The International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines coaching as partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential.

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Difference Between Coaching and Mentoring

You probably have already noticed that coaching and mentoring share several common elements. Both approaches:

• Rely on the helper’s experience
• Provide professional advice and guidance
• Work towards learner-defined goals
• Support significant career transitions
• Focus on personal growth

However, despite these similarities, coaching and mentoring serve distinct purposes and operate differently.

Here’s a clear breakdown of their key differences:

This understanding (adapted from Passmore’s research published in the International Journal of Evidence-Based Coaching and Mentoring) helps you choose the right development path based on your needs.

Examples of Coaching and Mentoring in the Workplace

Here are a few examples of coaching and mentoring partnerships seen in today’s workplace:

• A senior product manager mentors a new marketing hire on understanding customer needs, building foundational knowledge, and exploring career options.
• An executive leadership coach helps a director strengthen strategic thinking competencies and transition into general management.
• A reverse mentoring program has junior employees mentor executives to help them gain digital fluency and appreciation for youth perspectives. One of the top companies that uses reverse mentoring is Mastercard to fill the cross-generational bridge in the workplace.
• A peer mentoring initiative supports women leaders in managing organizational politics, combating unconscious bias, and advancing to senior levels.

Two real-world examples of successful coaching and mentoring initiatives are:

• Google’s “Googler Reviews and Development (GRAD)” Program
  • Focuses on employee development, learning, and progression throughout the year
  • Includes regular feedback and check-ins
  • Features twice-yearly promotions and annual performance ratings
• Deloitte’s D-180 Digital Mentoring
  • Targets university graduates and students
  • Provides skills development for the evolving economy
  • Uses digital platforms to facilitate mentoring relationships

Key Benefits of Coaching and Mentoring

Investing in a mentoring and coaching ecosystem generates multifaceted organizational dividends:

For Individuals:

• Build skills, knowledge, and experience
• Increased engagement (91% of mentored workers report higher job satisfaction)
• Clarify development needs and career ambitions
• Develop supportive networks and sponsors
• More confidence (80% of coaching recipients feel more self-assured) and a sense of purpose.

For Organizations:

• Boost productivity and performance
• Enhance succession pipelines with leadership continuity
• Improve knowledge transfer across generations
• Promote inclusion through cultural fluency
• Foster innovation and readiness for change.

Core Techniques of Coaching and Mentoring

To make coaching and mentoring truly effective, there are several techniques to implement:

Active Listening

Active listening goes far beyond just hearing words. When you practice active listening, you’re fully engaged with the speaker mentally and physically.

Here’s how to do it effectively:

• Maintain consistent eye contact (when culturally appropriate).
• Use encouraging body language like nodding and leaning forward.
• Focus entirely on what’s being said rather than planning your response.
• Pay attention to non-verbal cues like tone of voice and facial expressions.
• Wait for natural pauses before asking questions.
• Summarize key points to confirm your understanding.

Be comfortable with silence – sometimes, people need a moment to gather their thoughts or process emotions.

Powerful Questioning

The art of asking the right questions is crucial for both coaching and mentoring.

Effective questions should:

• Be open-ended (avoid yes/no questions).
• Start with “what,” “how,” or “tell me about.”
• Encourage reflection and self-discovery.
• Challenge assumptions.
• Focus on solutions rather than problems.

Instead of asking, “Did that presentation go well?” try to ask, “What did you learn from giving that presentation?”

Constructive Feedback

According to Stone and Heen’s research, there are three distinct types of feedback you can use in developmental conversations:

Effective leadership feedback isn’t about being right or wrong – it’s about creating meaningful conversations that lead to growth and development.

When you approach feedback with this mindset, people are more receptive and motivated to improve.

Building Trust and Rapport

Building trust in coaching relationships is essential for creating an environment where real growth can occur.

Build it by:

• Maintaining strict confidentiality
• Being consistently reliable and punctual
• Showing genuine interest in the other person’s success
• Admitting when you don’t know something
• Following through on commitments
• Sharing relevant experiences and challenges from your own journey.

These techniques work best when they’re natural and authentic. As you practice them, you’ll develop your own style and approach.

The key is to remain focused on your primary goal: supporting the other person’s growth and development.

The GROW Model

It is one of the easiest executive coaching models used by experts for structuring coaching conversations.

It looks something like this:

• Goal: Define what you want to achieve (your destination).
• Reality: Assess your current situation (your starting point).
• Options: Explore possible routes to your goal.
• Will (or Way Forward): Commit to specific actions.

For example, if you’re coaching someone to improve their presentation skills, you’d first:

• establish their goal (“deliver confident presentations”),
• examine their current challenges,
• explore various improvement strategies, and
• finally, commit to specific practice activities.

How to Develop a Mentoring and Coaching Culture in the Workplace

Creating a strong coaching and mentoring culture requires a systematic approach:

1. Lead by Example

From the C-suite down through middle managers, leaders demonstrate receptivity to being coached and eagerness to mentor and establish role modeling.

Welcome questions, listen deeply with empathy, be experimentative, acknowledge missteps, and talk about mentors who helped you – all exhibiting the growth values you want to flourish.

2. Make Formal Initiatives

Punctuate the ad-hoc coaching and mentoring occurring informally with structured programs.

These could include executive leadership coaching, reverse and reciprocal mentoring, group mentoring, mentorship for critical roles, and coaching skills for managers, among others.

3. Equip Mentors and Coaches

Ensure your mentors and coaches can access professional development resources and skill-building opportunities to enrich partnerships.

Assess capabilities, provide instructional tools, create peer forums for exchanging ideas, and build mechanisms for mentor/coach feedback.

If you need external help, don’t hesitate to seek expert guidance.

In fact, partnering with professional coaches is often the fastest path to achieving your leadership goals.

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4. Incorporate Coaching Skills into Management Competencies

Rather than keeping coaching only to specialized internal or external experts, integrate strong skills for asking thoughtful questions, mindful listening, and constructive feedback into official skills requirements for people managers.

This step enables even more frequent, productive coaching and mentoring conversations across the organization.

5. Recognize Efforts

Publicly praise and reward impactful mentoring and coaching efforts. For example, give mentorship awards or include coaching contributions in performance reviews.

Highlighting these success stories motivates others to get involved.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Here are some common questions about mentoring and coaching in the workplace:

What Are the Best Practices for Mentoring Programs?

Best practices are:

• Start Small: Begin with a pilot program and scale based on learnings.
• Diverse Participation: Include participants from various backgrounds and levels.
• Clear Guidelines: Establish program parameters and expectations.
• Regular Check-ins: Monitor progress and provide support.
• Measure Success: Track key metrics and gather feedback.

What Are the Effects of Applying Coaching, Counseling, and Mentoring?

Coaching, mentoring, and counseling all help people grow professionally. But they play different roles.

Counseling focuses on healing personal issues while coaching and mentoring develop workplace abilities.

Quality coaching and mentoring improve skills, connections, mindsets, and relationships.

How Can Coaching and Mentoring Improve Workplace Culture?

The caring partnership of coaching and mentoring shows the human values an organization wants to see. These interactions build trust, understanding, and a team mindset.

As more people get involved, the culture improves. Coaching and mentoring help ideals take root across an organization.

Conclusion

The key lesson here is that mentoring and coaching help people grow at work. They build talent through personal guidance.

At Tandem Coaching, we specialize in developing executives to reach their potential.

We focus on lifting strategic thinking, decision-making, communication, and motivating teams. Our ASPIRE method empowers based on individual strengths while preparing for modern realities.

If transforming your leadership potential interests you, don’t hesitate to request a free consultation from Tandem Coaching today! Let’s craft your blueprint for growth!