Thought Reframing
Practice

MINDSET & GROWTH TOOLS

Examine the thought before it drives the response.

Where This Tool Helps

A thought under stress feels like a fact. The sequence happens fast — situation occurs, interpretation fires, emotion follows, behavior results — and by the time behavior lands, the original thought has already been treated as truth. This worksheet slows that sequence down long enough to look at it.

The most useful step is “evidence against.” People fill “evidence for” quickly and fully. The evidence against their own distressing thought is where most get stuck — not because the counterevidence doesn’t exist, but because the emotional weight of the original thought makes it hard to hold both at once. That’s the work this tool is designed to support.

Work through each field in order. The final question — what would be a more accurate thought — only has traction once you’ve examined both sides of the evidence.

How to Use This Tool

  1. Choose a specific thought that is causing distress, not a general worry. Write it in field 1.
  2. Answer fields 2–5 before looking at field 6. The sequence matters.
  3. In field 4, write actual evidence — not just feelings or interpretations.
  4. In field 5, push yourself. What would someone who sees you clearly point to here?
  5. Use the scale in field 6 to notice how evidence-based vs. emotion-based your original thought was.
  6. Write a replacement thought in field 7. It doesn’t need to be optimistic — it needs to be accurate.

Shift Your Thoughts

1. The thought causing distress:

2. What triggered this thought?

3. How does this thought make you feel?

4. Evidence that supports this thought:

5. Evidence that contradicts this thought:

6. Where on this scale does the original thought sit?

1
10
Driven entirely
by emotion
Based entirely
on evidence
My rating:

7. Given the evidence, what would be a more accurate thought?

8. How do you feel about this more accurate thought?

What I noticed:

Reflections:

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