Assessment & Discovery Tools
A one-week activity inventory that shows where your energy goes,
and whether that matches where your attention goes.
Most people working through a stuck period know, in the abstract, what energizes them. Ask them and they can list it. What the list rarely surfaces is the gap between what energizes them and what gets the bulk of their time and attention. This worksheet closes that gap by working from concrete events — specific tasks, conversations, and decisions from a recent week or month — rather than from memory or self-concept.
Two patterns show up regularly when stuck clients complete this map. The first: a cluster of high-energy activities that gets very little time, usually because the work feels risky, uncertain, or hard to justify. The second: a cluster of neutral or low-energy activities that gets most of the time, usually because it is familiar and safe to keep doing. Neither pattern appears on a values list. Both appear immediately on a completed map.
A third pattern takes more looking: activities that feel like they should energize but do not, and activities that drain on paper but actually produce something useful once you are inside them. The "Deceptive Draws" section near the bottom of the worksheet is there for those.
The map is most useful when you resist the urge to interpret while filling it in. Record first. Look for patterns after.
List 10–15 specific activities from your selected window — concrete tasks, conversations, or decisions. Rate each row honestly.
| Activity specific task, conversation, or decision |
Energy Direction ↑ gives ↓ takes → neutral |
Time Spent hours incl. prep |
Avoidance 1 = no resistance 5 = delayed |
|---|---|---|---|
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
||
↑ ↓ → |
1 2 3 4 5 |
Some activities feel like they should energize but do not. Others feel like they should drain, but there is something in them that works. Complete this section after filling in all rows above.
Look at your completed grid before answering.
Where does your time go most heavily — into ↑ activities, ↓ activities, or → activities? What does that ratio tell you?
Which high-avoidance activities (rated 4 or 5) also rated ↑ energy? What has been in the way of doing them more?
Which low-avoidance activities (rated 1 or 2) also rated ↓ energy? How much of your week do they account for?
Look at the column showing highest time investment alongside lowest energy direction. What is one thing that keeps that investment in place? What would have to be true for it to shift?
If the high-avoidance / high-energy row exists on your map, write down what specifically makes that activity feel risky or hard to commit to. Not the abstract version — the specific one.
Credentialed coaches with real-world leadership experience,
partnering with executives and organizations
to unlock sustainable growth.
tandemcoach.co/
contact-us
info@tandemcoach.co
855 51 COACH
Challenge your thinking.
Discover your capabilities.
Act on them.
Dallas, TX | Houston, TX | Worldwide Virtual