Shared Household Task Map

COMMUNICATION & RELATIONSHIPS TOOLS

Optional client-owned prompts; use, adapt, reorder, or skip based on context.

Using This Optional Tool

This tool offers optional prompts to map selected household tasks, ownership, consent, capacity, access, and negotiation without inferring gender, ADHD, conflict, imbalance, or required redistribution. Its fields are prompts, not findings, requirements, professional advice, or a complete model of the situation.

Use the client's own words. Separate direct observations and sources from interpretations, assumptions, predictions, and unknowns. Any field can be renamed, reordered, repeated, left blank, revisited, or discarded.

How to Use Shared Household Task Map

Choose one relevant situation or question, or skip the tool.
Use only the prompts that fit the client's goal, language, access needs, consent, privacy, and context.
Record evidence, interpretations, and unknowns separately; no response proves a cause, trait, score, priority, or outcome.
Keep any question, experiment, support, referral, action, or no action optional and client-owned.

Choice and Support Boundary

Optional coaching reflection, not therapy, diagnosis, medical care, a validated assessment, or business, financial, tax, accounting, investment, legal, employment, or relationship advice. Skip, adapt, or stop. Do not infer a cause, condition, trait, motive, truth, score, risk, priority, or required response from an answer, blank, label, difficulty, repetition, or estimate. Preserve privacy, consent, access, culture, power, context, and uncertainty; use qualified or emergency support for unsafe, severe, or out-of-scope concerns.

Shared Household Task Map

Use any field in any order. Rename, repeat, skip, or stop.

Selected household task

Name one task, care responsibility, or blank.

Current ownership

What is explicitly agreed, observed, assumed, or unknown?

Capacity and access

Time, energy, disability, age, finances, culture, safety, and other context.

Preferences and boundaries

What does each consenting person want, decline, or need?

Shared Household Task Map continued

Use any field in any order. Rename, repeat, skip, or stop.

Possible arrangement

Share, rotate, delegate, automate, remove, defer, or make no change.

Consent-based check-in

If useful, choose when and how to revisit without scorekeeping.

Optional review

What is directly observed, what remains interpreted or unknown, and which optional question, support, referral, experiment, or no next step feels useful?

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