Emotional
Vocabulary
Reference

ADHD Executive Function Tools

A structured reference for exploring emotion words

Using This Vocabulary

This word list is a vocabulary aid, not a complete or universal map of emotion. Use the closest word as a starting point and add your own language when none of the listed terms fits.

Naming a feeling may support reflection or communication, but it does not establish its cause, intensity, or best response. The categories are optional and are not an ADHD profile.

How to Use This Reference

  1. Start anywhere in the table. Choose a listed category or word only when it feels useful; a rough match or a self-supplied word is enough.
  2. Move across rows and columns. The entries are examples, not a hierarchy, and selecting a word does not determine a response.
  3. Use the additional words as options, not answers. You do not need a perfect or final label; add language that fits better when the list does not.
  4. Keep this reference visible. Pin it to a wall, save it on your phone, or leave it in your notebook. Emotional vocabulary grows through repeated use, not memorization.
  5. Use the reference whenever it feels helpful. You can reflect during or after a situation and revise the words as more context becomes available.

Coaching and Health Scope

This is a coaching reflection aid, not therapy, diagnosis, medical care, or a validated clinical instrument. Use it to record your own observations and prepare questions, not to identify a condition or choose treatment. Adapt or stop any prompt that feels unsafe or distressing. Bring persistent sleep, mood, anxiety, medication, physical-symptom, or safety concerns to a licensed health professional; use emergency or local crisis services for immediate danger.

Emotional Vocabulary Reference

Broad Category Related Words Additional Words
Happiness Joy Elation, Ecstasy, Jubilation
Contentment Satisfaction, Peace, Serenity
Excitement Anticipation, Eagerness, Enthusiasm
Sadness Grief Despair, Regret, Sorrow
Melancholy Longing, Pensiveness, Reflection
Disappointment Dismay, Letdown, Discouragement
Anger Irritation Agitation, Annoyance, Impatience
Frustration Vexation, Provocation, Exasperation
Resentment Bitterness, Hostility, Animosity
Fear Anxiety Worry, Unease, Nervousness
Apprehension Trepidation, Suspicion, Distrust
Terror Panic, Dread, Horror
Surprise Amazement Astonishment, Awe, Wonder
Shock Disbelief, Bewilderment, Stupefaction
Confusion Perplexity, Bafflement, Distraction
Disgust Revulsion Repulsion, Abhorrence, Detestation
Aversion Dislike, Repugnance, Distaste
Contempt Disdain, Scorn, Disapproval

Before Your Next Session

Reflection Prompts

Think about a recent work moment and use the reference to choose a word that may fit what you noticed. What context was present, and what additional word would make the description more accurate?

Choose one ordinary situation this week. After it happens, use the chart as an optional vocabulary aid and note whether a different or self-supplied word feels more accurate later.

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