Control, Influence, and Context Notes
REFLECTION & DECISION SUPPORT TOOLS
Optional client-owned prompts; use, adapt, reorder, or skip based on context.
REFLECTION & DECISION SUPPORT TOOLS
Optional client-owned prompts; use, adapt, reorder, or skip based on context.
This tool offers optional prompts to separate selected direct control, possible influence, concern, shared authority, and uncertainty without fixed categories, ratios, persuasion tactics, probability claims, or prescribed use of time, money, or energy. Its fields are prompts, not findings, requirements, professional advice, or a complete model of the situation.
Use the client's own words. Separate direct observations and sources from interpretations, assumptions, predictions, and unknowns. Any field can be renamed, reordered, repeated, left blank, revisited, or discarded.
Optional coaching reflection, not therapy, diagnosis, medical care, a validated assessment, or business, financial, tax, accounting, investment, legal, employment, or relationship advice. Skip, adapt, or stop. Do not infer a cause, condition, trait, motive, truth, score, risk, priority, or required response from an answer, blank, label, difficulty, repetition, or estimate. Preserve privacy, consent, access, culture, power, context, and uncertainty; use qualified or emergency support for unsafe, severe, or out-of-scope concerns.
Use any field in any order. Rename, repeat, skip, or stop.
Client wording, scope, and date.
What may the client actually decide or do?
Who else has rights, consent, responsibility, or power?
What may be requested or discussed without predicting agreement?
Use any field in any order. Rename, repeat, skip, or stop.
What matters even if action is unavailable?
What is known, assumed, changing, or outside view?
Act, ask, collaborate, set a boundary, seek advice, defer, or no action.
What new evidence or condition could change the map?
What is directly observed, what remains interpreted or unknown, and which optional question, support, referral, experiment, or no next step feels useful?
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